COACHING SESSIONS

I am a somatic sex coach in Ojai, California and I have created a unique blend of all the things I love to create a sex coaching practice that addresses every inch of your pain and your pleasure. I found that blending my background in Tantra, my Love of sex coaching and my passion for Domination created a very potent and specialized session space that stitches together all the areas of the erotic that endlessly interest me. We travel into the psyche to explore your kinks, unblock your blocks and give you the tools to be able to savor the gift of presence and intimacy.

What are coaching sessions?

Coaching sessions offer a soft space to explore emotional or physical trauma, as well as patterns that may be hindering your ability to connect or experience pleasure in the way you most deeply crave. I use my intuition, somatic observation, deep listening and creative questions to uncover your desires and create opportunities for them to be safely explored. Sex serves as the fertile earth from which we begin our work together, but coaching will cover everything. Together we will dive into: Your desires beyond the bedroom, life goals, fears, severe traumas, communication needs, task delegation within relationships, balance between children and romance, your relationship with your family, repressed kinks, and unexpressed sexual desires, etc. Because our entire life influences our sex life, we will approach the healing holistically.

Who are coaching sessions for?

These sessions are for anyone ready to transform their life. Whether you're single and exploring your desires, exploring your queerness, healing from past trauma, looking to explore non-monogamy for the first time, establishing a strong and sexy foundation with a new partner, or reinvigorating a partnership that has become distant or stagnant, coaching supports it all. Available as couple’s session or for a single person.

Sessions are entirely personal— shaped around your specific situation, your specific relationship, your dream sex life. Clients learn to slow down and tune into what is genuine a yes and a no in their body and how to uphold boundaries. They learn deep listening and how to ask for what they want without apology and how to bring solution-oriented thinking to the tensions in their relationships rather than circling the same arguments. The changes are cumulative — each session building on the last.

Some of my favorite tools:

-Talking and deep listening practice

-Tapping + shaking

-Shibari + somatic surrender

-Cupping and acupressure points

-Take home “play-work” that you will practice with a consensual lover 

-Breathwork

-Permission to make noise!

Investment

Coaching is offered in packages of 2, 4, 8 or 12 x 1 hour sessions or a yearly subscription, which offers a substantially juicy discount. Coaching sessions are offered in packages as they are geared towards long-lasting, life-altering shifts in how we relate to ourselves and our partner or partners.

Package of 2 $600

Package of 4 $1200

Package of 8 $2400

Package of 12 $3600

Yearly subscription (message me for details)

Online sessions also available upon request and begin at $280/hour